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Community A Guide to WOMEN: The Do's and Don'ts.

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I've read enough Cosmopolitan and Glamour articles to have remembered one piece of advice; TELL THEM WHAT YOU WANT. So I suppose by revealing to a man (or to a woman, though I happen t be writing this personally for men) what you don't want you are setting the tone for what you DO want. There are always the obvious do's: surprise us with chocolate, say it's fine if we just want to "talk", back massages, etc. etc. BUT- if you are exercising those DO's you're no genius. I'd like to give you a little bit of an insiders view on the Do's and the Don'ts of women....

DON'T BEG.

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There is NOTHING more unattractive than a man begging. Unless you’re involved in some type of role play, begging is highly unattractive. First off, it makes us women wonder why you have such low self esteem that you’d feel GOOD about being pitied. If you’re being for forgiveness, why don’t you try a decent apology first?? If you’re begging for a date…..um, do you really think it could go up from here if you’re already whining? I think not, that spells out doom to me.

 

DO ADMIT WHEN I'M RIGHT

I didn’t say you needed to admit when you are wrong…..and I know the whole “pride thing” is big for a lot of men, you just instead need to admit that I….. am right. 

DO make sure it's good chocolate

Our grandmothers used to buy us expired Whitman’s samplers for Christmas. We’ve seen them at the drug store. WE KNOW HOW MUCH THEY COST. Surprise us with something unusual instead. It doesn’t have to be a lot. It just has to not suck and be slightly original. IF you are the chocolate-giving type, that is. Not everyone wants to, and that’s fine. Just don’t be half-assed about it.

added by Andrea D 13 days ago

DON'T be passive aggressive

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That is OUR job.

added by Andrea D 13 days ago
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