How to be a Country Girl in New York City
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Lately, I've had a new "thing." A country thing. It could have been brought on by a yearning for the open road, instead of the packed city streets of New York or maybe the simplicity of a farm life and the secret love I had driving past ranches and cows in my hometown. Whatever it is, my inner country girl is surely awake and ready to trade in her round toed Marc Jacobs shoes for pointy, rugged cowboy boots. Instead of the fancy bars and modern decor, I'm looking Levi's, plaid, a nice cool beer, THE PERFECT PLAYLIST and of course....a nice country boy who may have lost himself in Manhattan on the way to the rodeo. Slip on your chaps and join me!
It's ALL about the shoes
Are the spurs completely necessary when you’re walking down 51st?? Probably not, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t fun! Wearing a scarf in the middle of summer as an accessory is silly too, but in the name of fashion, cowboy boots are ALWAYS acceptable. Even if you’re in the city.
I’ve been lucky enough to come across some kick ass (no pun intended, I know there are a lot of country songs implying that the cowboy boot kicks the best/the most ass) vintage cowboy boots in New York City, you just have to dig for them a little bit.
The great thing about the cowboy boots is that you can pull them off in the summer (as seen by Britney Spear, but please, don’t take anymore cues off of her) and they brave the storm in the winter….while keeping your toesies nice and toasty! Remember these were made for the country!!! Horse, manure and heavy hay lifting. If you’re just carrying a latte I’m sure they’ll pull through.
Those vintage cowboy boots I’m talking about, you can find them here! Top it off with a little bit of plaid and you’ve got the look. Plus, you could still pull of “hipster” if you must.
Those vintage cowboy boots I’m talking about, you can find them here! Top it off with a little bit of plaid and you’ve got the look. Plus, you could still pull of “hipster” if you must.
Are you surprised they stay in business? Yeah so am I….where are all the East coast cowboys hiding? Soho?
Are you surprised they stay in business? Yeah so am I….where are all the East coast cowboys hiding? Soho?
Gte some customized BABY boots! That’s right, perfect for you little cowgirl/boy in the making.
Gte some customized BABY boots! That’s right, perfect for you little cowgirl/boy in the making.
So you’re still afraid of working the cowboy boot? Fine. We’ll take baby steps, try the Frye boots. I promise no one will point and stare.
The Naked Cowboy.....
got lost in Manhattan AND lost all of his clothes, poor guy.
How to be a Country Girl in New York City
Dance on the bar!
Everyone remembers the movie, that then gave birth a VERY CLASSY reality show on CMT searching for the best Coyote Ugly girls to work in bars across America. Wonder if any of them ended up in the Big Apple? Regardless of whether you feel disgusting walking out of bar covered in beer and dancing for strangers for free on the top of a bar….it’s actually, quite fun.
DRESS THE PART
What you’ll need: Cowboy hat, jean in some form preferably Wranglers or Levi’s, cleavage, possibly some belly baring, boots, belt buckle and checker/paisley print in some form.
Sure it may be pricey to splurge on a solid gold belt buckle or snake skin boots but at least you’ll feel like a “fancy” cowgirl.
Sure it may be pricey to splurge on a solid gold belt buckle or snake skin boots but at least you’ll feel like a “fancy” cowgirl.
Fried Chicken= the way to a Country Girl's HEART
Every Country Girl has a little bit of HEARTBREAK
Sometimes while we’re looking for our Souther gentleman, or simple country boy….we have to kiss a few toads. Or in my case, many toads. I’ve perfected my playlist….just don’t spend too much time wallowing, remember you’ve got cornbread to consume and bar dancing that’s calling your name!
- Down on my Knees- Trisha Yearwood
- I Fall to Pieces- Patsy Cline
- Is It Over Yet- Wynona Judd
- Wrong Again- Martina McBride
- I Know You Won’t- Carrie Underwood
- Let Me Let Go- Faith Hill
- The Last One to Know- Reba McEntire
- Tonight the Heartache’s on me- Dixie Chicks
- Cheatin’- Sara Evans
- Tennessee- The Wreckers
- Should’ve Said No- Taylor Swift
- Before the Next Teardrop Falls- Dolly Parton
Cowboy boots are sexxxxxyyyyyy
Who cares what they think? They’re boring, you’re hot.
To get in the mood, you'll need a PLAYLIST
I may be rocking out to Radiohead or The Roots but I have my fair share of country girl tunes too. If you’re having hometown blues or bursting a broken heart with a glass of whiskey, country women are there for you. Sing it ladies, sing IT.
- Gunpowder and Lead- Miranda Lambert (every real girl should have a shotgun…..right?)
- Here for the party- Gretchen Wilson (I know that’s what I’m here for.)
- Flat on the Floor- Carrie Underwood
- Last Name- Carrie Underwood (even Carrie gets drunk and makes stupid decisions, don’t feel bad.)
- My Give a Damn’s Busted- Jo Dee Messina (try that line on your boss the next time you have a meeting at work….)
- Johnny and June- Heidi Newfield
- Red High Heels- Kelli Pickler (this one is the perfect “going out” song)
- What if it All Goes Right- Melissa Lawson
- Fancy- Reba McEntire
- Wide Open Spaces- Dixie Chicks (this one will have you thinking about moving away from the city)
- Girl’s Night Out- The Judd’s
- Two More Bottles of Wine- Martina McBride
It was a little difficult finding a popular line dancing joint in Manhattan. However, clog dancing comes pretty close. Plus, it’s noisier and when you’re busy practicing maybe you can finally meet that hot neighbor below you when he comes and complains.
Now it's time to PLAY!
Have you noticed that country girls have one common theme? They like to go out, get a little rowdy, wear their best pair of cowboy boots (or red heels in Kellie Pickler’s case) a huge belt buckle and then dance, dance, drink, drink, and shake off those work time blues. Hm, doesn’t sound that much different from what us city girls do either, eh?
I know we’re bold here in New York, but anytime there’s tunes about meeting your man at the door with a shotgun, you’ve got me beat. I’d like to be able to run with the best of them country chicks, so I am working on it…..my aim is getting better everyday.
One of the biggest things needed to get the full on COUNTRY FEEL is some live country music! Rodeo Bar isn’t just a great place to grab your girlfriends and start line dancing but the perfect spot to feel completely accepted in all of your country glory. Tex Mex and “honky tonk.” I may come here every night of the week during my new “phase” as country superstar.
One of the biggest things needed to get the full on COUNTRY FEEL is some live country music! Rodeo Bar isn’t just a great place to grab your girlfriends and start line dancing but the perfect spot to feel completely accepted in all of your country glory. Tex Mex and “honky tonk.” I may come here every night of the week during my new “phase” as country superstar.
Get YER drink on!
Every classy country girl needs a crushed velvet shirt and lipstick to match her nails….and her drink.
Whatever floats your boat…..or your horse.
Now it's time to GRUB!!!
My mouth is watering just thinking about BBQ. Home cookin’, finger lickin’, cornbread, fried chicken, ribs dripping with BBQ sauce so much that your face is covered in it…….::sigh:: I need a moment….OK. What I’m trying to say is, country food is the best food. You can’t go out and have sushi while you’re wearing all your new country garb, you’ll be totally out of place. Go where you belong!!! …..save some leftovers for me.
Owned by a country boy turned pop star, Justin Timberlake Southern Hospitality manages to keep that Southern charm and Southern TASTE. The music is amazing and the BBQ is even better. Down-home cooking; fried chicken, FRIED GREEN TOMATOES (my favorite), baked beans and biscuits….plus there’s always that tiny chance Justin may stop by :) Mmmm mmm gooood.
Owned by a country boy turned pop star, Justin Timberlake Southern Hospitality manages to keep that Southern charm and Southern TASTE. The music is amazing and the BBQ is even better. Down-home cooking; fried chicken, FRIED GREEN TOMATOES (my favorite), baked beans and biscuits….plus there’s always that tiny chance Justin may stop by :) Mmmm mmm gooood.
Another restaurant that cooks TRUE Southern cookin’ and has your name in the title. Kitschy decor doesn’t over compensate for lack of a great plate of food, the atmosphere just adds to a great meal. Order the baked spud with “all the fixin’s” it’s incredible and fun to say.
Another restaurant that cooks TRUE Southern cookin’ and has your name in the title. Kitschy decor doesn’t over compensate for lack of a great plate of food, the atmosphere just adds to a great meal. Order the baked spud with “all the fixin’s” it’s incredible and fun to say.
Every country girl has to kiss some frogs!!
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