To Theme, Or Not to Theme?
The question is easy. The answer is simple. If you are brave enough to throw a party, you must pick a theme. The theme centers the festivities of your gathering. It provides the attendee with an idea of what to expect from the evening. The theme offers a chance for your guests to become someone else for the night without regret. Here is the bottom line: theme parties make for killer memories and who in their right mind doesn’t pine for those?
The answer is THEME.
Size Matters
Not every party needs to be a PARTY. When it comes to inviting guests, the first thing you need to determine is an appropriate size. Throwing a Mafia themed Italian dinner night? Don’t invite everyone at the bar. Think in terms of myspace top friends. Whatever theme you choose directly dictates the size of the party. Think about it before you hit send.
Tricks of the Trade
I’ve been planning, throwing and attending theme parties since I was five years old. It all started, thanks to my mother, with a Little Mermaid party. My father dressed up as King Triton demanding the “key” from guest which was included with the invite. We had a dingle hopper hunt in the backyard and a treasure chest in the living room. I blame this experience for my theme party obsession.
At this point, I’ve thrown more theme parties than I can count ranging from a big Italian dinner to a huge Studio 54 affair complete with faux coke. Through all the costumes, decorations and clean up, I have learned countless hosting lessons the hard way. Here are my party saver suggestions:
1. If you choose to throw a blow out, a.k.a. debauchery, invite everyone you know. There is NOTHING more depressing than an empty party. This may seem like an obvious tip, but it’s an important one. Don’t forget to encourage invitees to spread the word and to bring friends. The “more the merrier” saying is no joke.
2. Lighting is crucial. Nothing kills the mood of a Great Gatsby Soiree than your kitchen’s florescent light. Bring in lamps from other rooms or get some Christmas lights. On the same note, low lighting may not always be part of your theme. If you are having an Office Space party that florescent light may be just the thing. Lighting makes the theme so do whatever you have to do to achieve your goal. I’ve been known to duck tape light switches to avoid a surprise illumination.
3. Supply cheap booze. Don’t buy one bottle of vodka for your select few and assume no one is going to try to sneak a pull. Remember: at a theme party it isn’t so much what you are drinking as it is how you are drinking it. Be creative. Stock your fridge with the cheapest beer 7-11 sells. It won’t set you back too much and your guests expect it to be there. You’re throwing a party so be ready to spend some dough.
4. If you live in a house, hire a DJ. That DJ can be your best friend or your dad, but having someone responsible for the music all night will eliminate the stress a dead ipod can produce. Tell the DJ what you want to hear, hand him a beer and be off. Your guests will be impressed.
5. In the end, it is just a party. Just a party with your friends in silly costumes, drinking cheap beer. So, have fun! Don’t sweat the small stuff once the party starts and everything will be OK.
Those are the most important things I can think of for all you party throwing social butterflies. Good luck out there, and don’t forget to play the part.
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