Migratory Habits of the New Bostonian: From School to Suburbia
By mswen
updated 3 months ago
Hundreds of thousands of people first move to Boston to attend college. And unless they're from New York, a great many of them stay and become residents of our fantabulovely state after graduation. After years of study, it appears that the residency path is quite similar for this particular group. Here's how it happens.
Stop 1: Boston/Cambridge
How exciting – you’re living in Boston (or Cambridge)! This is most likely because it’s your freshman year of college. So this, my friend, should be a year to remember - because it will probably be the only time in your life when you have a Boston address (albeit a dorm address, but a Boston address nonetheless). So live it up.
Dorms at Boston University. Heat, safety, running water, and food: you’ll never have it this good again.
Boston (read: student) residents care only about two things: going out and shopping. Since dorm dining takes care of the nuisance of eating, they can focus all of their energies on shopping at high-end boutiques and frequenting the coolest, most amazing hot spots.
Beautiful, penniless students party it up at Felt.
Because you’re a cosmopolitan student in the big, swanky city of Boston, you want only the best for your nightly entertainment (that is, when you’re not doing keg stands or guzzling warm Old Milwaukee out of brightly colored plastic cups). Felt is currently one of the big hot spots in the city. Join your fellow college students (and the occasional celebrity – hello, Matt Damon and Ben Affleck!) on four levels for drinking, pool-playing, and dancing. Looking your best is a MUST, so break out your new credit card (or simply dip into your bank account, if you’re one of the Wealthy Kids) and shop and primp to the max before setting foot inside.
Because you’re a cosmopolitan student in the big, swanky city of Boston, you want only the best for your nightly entertainment (that is, when you’re not doing keg stands or guzzling warm Old Milwaukee out of brightly colored plastic cups). Felt is currently one of the big hot spots in the city. Join your fellow college students (and the occasional celebrity – hello, Matt Damon and Ben Affleck!) on four levels for drinking, pool-playing, and dancing. Looking your best is a MUST, so break out your new credit card (or simply dip into your bank account, if you’re one of the Wealthy Kids) and shop and primp to the max before setting foot inside.
Even though, when you become a mortgage-paying adult, you will bang your head repeatedly against the wall remembering what an idiot you were, you will shop here because you’re caught up in labels due to the fact that all of your school mates look like they stepped out of Vogue so it must be how college students are supposed to dress, right? And so you’ll buy a Prada bag but every month you’ll bring your laundry home because you can’t scrounge enough quarters together for the washing machine. I speak from experience.
Even though, when you become a mortgage-paying adult, you will bang your head repeatedly against the wall remembering what an idiot you were, you will shop here because you’re caught up in labels due to the fact that all of your school mates look like they stepped out of Vogue so it must be how college students are supposed to dress, right? And so you’ll buy a Prada bag but every month you’ll bring your laundry home because you can’t scrounge enough quarters together for the washing machine. I speak from experience.
You’re desperate to move out of the dorms. You want your own place, and it doesn’t matter if you’re sharing it with 8 other people in a piss-poor section of Boston known as the Student Slums. It’s your own place, damnit, and you can drink all night long if you want and punch holes in the walls. (Wait, you mean that’s deducted out of my security deposit?)
A typical apartment building in Allston/Brighton. This particular one was my first apartment and I never wanted to move out. Ever. Then again, I was 19.
Amvets Thrift Store
80 BRIGHTON AVE ALLSTON, MA 02134
Students have no money for anything. But finally having your own place compells you to make it your own. So decorate your digs with items from this beloved thrift store. It’s also packed with clothes for you to a) wear to class or b) use for a costume party. Whatever floats your boat.
You will be living on this when you’re living in A/B. And you’ll actually love it.
As an Allston/Brighton resident, and as a college student who likes to drink, you will become incredibly familiar with Blanchard’s Liquors on Harvard Ave.
Quite possibly the first liquor store where you will make your first legal purchase, Blanchard’s will become your go-to place living in A/B. This landmark store might just be the top supplier of kegs in the nation. We should do a study. With plenty of parking for everyone else’s cars (you’ve gotten there either by foot or the T), Blanchards has a great selection of booze and beer and even a fantastic deli.
Quite possibly the first liquor store where you will make your first legal purchase, Blanchard’s will become your go-to place living in A/B. This landmark store might just be the top supplier of kegs in the nation. We should do a study. With plenty of parking for everyone else’s cars (you’ve gotten there either by foot or the T), Blanchards has a great selection of booze and beer and even a fantastic deli.
Because you’re “on your own” now that you have your own apartment, you’ll most likely forego the gym at your school and join the Allston branch of the Boston Sports Clubs. Since, you know, you’re so independent like that. And because Mom and Dad are footing the bill. You can also kill two birds with one stone: since every other A/B college student resident belongs there, too, BSC is the best pick up joint in town.
Because you’re “on your own” now that you have your own apartment, you’ll most likely forego the gym at your school and join the Allston branch of the Boston Sports Clubs. Since, you know, you’re so independent like that. And because Mom and Dad are footing the bill. You can also kill two birds with one stone: since every other A/B college student resident belongs there, too, BSC is the best pick up joint in town.
Hundreds of bottles of beer on the wall at Sunset Grill & Tap.
Sunset Grill & Tap
130 BRIGHTON AVE ALLSTON, MA 02134
A huge, obscure beer selection and great food will make this one of your favorite A/B spots. The service is questionable, but after serving loud, rowdy college kids day in and out, the staff is bound to be a little burnt out. Besides, you’ll be so mesmerized at seeing beer served in a yard-long glass, you’ll hardly care.
Oh, Brookline. The upper echelon of Boston proper. Gorgeous apartments, million dollar homes, and the quaint and lovely Brookline Village. You’re still renting at this point, but at least living in a more “mature” apartment with pretty windows and neighbors who actually hold down a job.
Charming Brookline Village. Trees! Nice shops! I even see a Mini. That means people here have money!
Shopping at a real grocery store, like Trader Joe’s, will enable you to purchase real food. Your body may go into a brief shock as it adjusts.
Finally: as a Brookline resident, you no longer have to buy your food at the corner convenience store or CVS. Walk in and join the rest of civilization as they shop for tasty, healthy food products at Trader Joe’s.
Finally: as a Brookline resident, you no longer have to buy your food at the corner convenience store or CVS. Walk in and join the rest of civilization as they shop for tasty, healthy food products at Trader Joe’s.
Don’t forget to invest in a bunch of reusable grocery bags in which to tote home your lovely food products. Because you’ll be walking home with said lovely food products, and don’t want to look like a lunatic.
Sure, you still trek into Boston for the nightlife, but now that you feel so darn at home in Brookline, you also enjoy frequenting local spots like Matt Murphy’s. Enjoy live music (like jazz – how grown up!), hearty food, and a nice dark atmosphere at this traditional Irish pub and you’ll quickly become a regular.
Sure, you still trek into Boston for the nightlife, but now that you feel so darn at home in Brookline, you also enjoy frequenting local spots like Matt Murphy’s. Enjoy live music (like jazz – how grown up!), hearty food, and a nice dark atmosphere at this traditional Irish pub and you’ll quickly become a regular.
So here’s what happened – you loved your Brookline digs. But you got really sick of looking for parking. By now you’ve graduated from college, and maybe even gotten a job somewhere which required you to actually get on the highway to travel to the office each day.
Your days of taking the T everywhere are over. Buy a car and enjoy the experience that is Boston-area driving.
So you decide to move to the outskirts – still within an 8 to 10 mile radius of The Big City (because you’re still going out in Boston every Friday and Saturday night). Somewhere like Malden, Medford, Somerville, or Watertown, where the rent is cheaper and the space is bigger (think one floor of a two or three family house). And, the best part of it all? That fact that you’ve got a driveway or plenty of spaces on the street to park your car without using an old chair or a stolen orange cone to mark your spot.
If you don’t have one already, you’ll need a car. Or, if you do have one, it’s about to die/has died/is embarrassing to drive and you’d like a new one. Yes, a brand-spanking new one. Because your motto is “used cars are just someone else’s problem”. And “I like shiny things and need leather seats”.
Since you have no savings to speak of, most likely you’ll lease. Which means visiting your local car dealership. Which means signing an agreement that you have no real understanding of but, hey! You’ve got a new car.
If you don’t have one already, you’ll need a car. Or, if you do have one, it’s about to die/has died/is embarrassing to drive and you’d like a new one. Yes, a brand-spanking new one. Because your motto is “used cars are just someone else’s problem”. And “I like shiny things and need leather seats”.
Since you have no savings to speak of, most likely you’ll lease. Which means visiting your local car dealership. Which means signing an agreement that you have no real understanding of but, hey! You’ve got a new car.
Your Brookline days eased you into buying your food at a market. But now you can shop at a SUPERmarket! You’ve got a car, a normal-sized kitchen, and are actually responsible for paying your own rent. Which means you’re no longer eating out for every single meal and need to have a stocked pantry. Shaw’s will pull you in with its cheery colors, big, wide, organized aisles, and TV screens while you wait in line to check out.
Your Brookline days eased you into buying your food at a market. But now you can shop at a SUPERmarket! You’ve got a car, a normal-sized kitchen, and are actually responsible for paying your own rent. Which means you’re no longer eating out for every single meal and need to have a stocked pantry. Shaw’s will pull you in with its cheery colors, big, wide, organized aisles, and TV screens while you wait in line to check out.
While your eating out habits have been curbed, and occur mostly with friends when you make your weekly appearances in Boston, you still frequent that one local haunt for the nights when you feel like getting takeout, hunkering down, and watching TV in your PJ’s. If you happen to live in Medford, this place will be your go-to spot for just those type of nights when you want a greasy, tasty pie of love.
My – I mean, other people’s – Mecca: the Cambridgeside Galleria.
100 Cambridgeside Pl Unit 315, Cambridge, MA 02141
Though it’s on the outskirts of Cambridge, this mall will be your shopping destination because at this stage of the game, you no longer have the patience to drive and park in downtown Boston to get your shopping fix. You’ll love the three floors of great shopping, but you’ll avoid the high school student-filled food court because – hey! You only eat out half as much as you used to and you’re certainly not going to waste it on a slice of Papa Gino’s pizza.
Though it’s on the outskirts of Cambridge, this mall will be your shopping destination because at this stage of the game, you no longer have the patience to drive and park in downtown Boston to get your shopping fix. You’ll love the three floors of great shopping, but you’ll avoid the high school student-filled food court because – hey! You only eat out half as much as you used to and you’re certainly not going to waste it on a slice of Papa Gino’s pizza.
By this time, most likely you’re engaged or newly married and have had it with paying rent. So you start looking for a home - as well as low crime rates and a decent school system. Hence, suburbia.
Your very own home? Check. Your very own mortgage? Check!
Pour over this annual list put out by Boston Magazine and wonder how the hell you’re supposed to afford Wellesley on your salary. The big pull-out ratings section will help you determine the next best places for you to settle, and you’ll find yourself wondering if the annual number of violent crimes in a town really “matters”.
When looking for your new home , prepare to spend every waking moment on this site. You’ll blast past listings that don’t have photos and take more virtual tours than you ever thought possible.
$150 a week on groceries won’t cut it when you have a mortgage to pay. And while you once swore that you’d never set food inside a Market Basket, when you realize you’ll save $50 a week by shopping there, it happens. Dreary, with narrow aisles and bins piled high with canned goods, your initial annoyance and confusion will temper down to acceptance.
$150 a week on groceries won’t cut it when you have a mortgage to pay. And while you once swore that you’d never set food inside a Market Basket, when you realize you’ll save $50 a week by shopping there, it happens. Dreary, with narrow aisles and bins piled high with canned goods, your initial annoyance and confusion will temper down to acceptance.
The Ninety Nine. Remember when you used to go to Felt?
During your long commute to and from work, you are bound to hear the commerical for the Nines on the radio at least twice. So it’s no surprise that it’s your go-to destination for after work drinks and even on date night with your honey. Affordable (every penny counts with a Massachusetts mortgage) and dependable, the beers are cold and the food is – well, not leftover meat loaf. With tons of locations, the drive back home is never far, so you’ll be back with plenty of time to catch some of the Sox game and go to bed early enough so you can mow your big suburban lawn in the morning before it rains.
During your long commute to and from work, you are bound to hear the commerical for the Nines on the radio at least twice. So it’s no surprise that it’s your go-to destination for after work drinks and even on date night with your honey. Affordable (every penny counts with a Massachusetts mortgage) and dependable, the beers are cold and the food is – well, not leftover meat loaf. With tons of locations, the drive back home is never far, so you’ll be back with plenty of time to catch some of the Sox game and go to bed early enough so you can mow your big suburban lawn in the morning before it rains.
No, it’s not on THAT Newbury Street. Along the death trap that is Route 1 resides the place homeowners get to know like the back of their hands: Costco. Warehouse shopping at its finest, there’s nothing you can’t get here: tens of pounds of meat, 10,000 count bottles of asprin, treadmills, toys, gigantic tubs of mayonnaise. But don’t be depressed – Costco even carries designer bags. So you can splurge on one here, too. Maybe it really IS like Newbury Street! Actually, no, it isn’t at all.
What every suburbanite needs is a gallon of salad dressing.
Stop 5: The Map
Bonus Stop: Southern New Hampshire
Six words: a big house and tax-free liquor.
If you’re adamant about having a large house and sprawling yard and don’t mind an often hell-ish commute into Massachusetts, you end up moving to New Hampshire. Brand new colonials with tons of space between your neighbors are the signature of this state, and cost a lot less than they would in Massachusetts. Combine that with 65 state-run liquor stores and you’ve got a deal.
New Hampshire attracts the frustrated buyers who want more for less. And the path ends here. Once you move to New Hampshire, you’re there to stay.
Your landscaping bills should even it all out.
New Hampshire State Liquor Store
417 S BROADWAY SALEM, NH 03079
A very exciting place to shop: no taxes, a complete and utterly astounding selection of beer, wine, and liquor, and the happy buzz of customers ready to party. With well-marked locations all over the state, this may be the state’s biggest draw.