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HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU- The guide.
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- February 09, 2009
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Talk about a phrase that'll stick! He's just not that into you is one that burns when it's thrown in your phase, but SOMETIMES it's just the truth and frankly, it's the best thing you can hear, once you HEAR IT. Women are constantly putting up with dating men and making terrible excuses for their bad behavior, and in turn- dating men WAY below their standard. Though, SHE'S just not that into you could apply also, men are just usually a bit more tricky.....in my opinion. So, from the hit book AND movie here's how to tell if HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU IF.......
...he's not calling when he says he will.
Calling when you say you’re going to call is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust. If he can’t lay this one stupid brick down, you ain’t never gonna have a house, baby. And it’s cold outside.
!!Remember!!
“Men don’t forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.”
HE'S ACTING LIKE HE DOESN'T GIVE A SH*T, BECAUSE HE GENUINELY DOESN'T GIVE A SH*T
"BUSY" IS A BAD EXCUSE
The word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes
If you don’t believe it…100% of men polled said they’ve never been too busy to call a woman they were really into. As one fine man said, ‘A man has got to have his priorities’"
....he's having sex with someone else.
Remember always what you set out to get and please don’t settle for less. These guys exist because there are a lot of women out there who allow them to.
Don't forget....
“You are good enough to be asked out.”
Don't be fooled:
“Hey, let’s meet at so-and-so’s party/any bar/friend’s house” is not a date. Even if you live in New York.
...he only wants to see you when he's drunk.
....he's breaking up with you.
Don’t ask for him back.
SEE THE MOVIE!!!
BUT, HE CALLS ME "BABY".......
Don’t let the “honeys” and the “babys” fool you. His sweet nothings are exactly that. They are much easier to say than “I’m just not that into you.” Remember, actions speak louder than, “There’s no cell reception where I am right now.”
NOTE:
NO break-up sex!!!
Do not think that because of all the crazy hotness of it all, it now means that you’re meant to be together. Yes, break up sex does seem like a good idea, because hey, it’s nice to have sex with someone you have these dramatic feelings about. It makes it all, well, dramatic. But now you know. It confuses everything and makes you separate sex and emotions. So now you don’t ever have to make that mistake again. Got it? He’s into the very-bad-idea-that-masquerades-as-a-good-idea, breakup sex.
You shouldn't have to beg him to love you!
He doesn’t need to be reminded that you’re great. If he does…he’s just not that into you.
Sure, being alone can suck sometimes....
Being lonely … being alone … for many people … sucks. I get it, I get it, I get it. But still I have to say that yes, my belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn’t honor the person you are is worse.
The STUPID excuses we make:
- Maybe he’s intimidated by me.
- He’s just really busy….
- He probably lost my number…?
- He’s worried about ruining our “friendship”
- He’s just “not ready.”
- Well, he’s been overwhelmed at work…
- Maybe he got hit by a car??
- He’s still getting over his last girlfriend, so he’s being cautious…
.....he's not sleeping with you.
Easy eager beaver...
“Don’t get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he’ll do the asking.”
....he's not dating you.
No matter how powerful and real your feelings may be for someone, if that person cannot fully and honestly return them and therefore actively love you back, these feelings mean nothing.
!!Remember!!
“Just because you like to lead doesn’t mean he wants to dance. Some
traditions are born of nature and last through time for a reason.”
It may hurt but it's true:
“If you can find him,then he can find you…..if he wants to find you, he will.”
.....IF HE DROPPED OFF THE FACE OF THE EARTH!
Or if he doesn’t have the deceny to BREAK UP WITH YOU, or tell you he moved to another state.
FACE IT: You picked a lemon. Throw it away. Lemonade is overrated.
He is a man made up entirely of your excuses. And the minute you stop making excuses for him, he will completely disappear from your life.
LISTEN TO HIM WHEN HE SAYS:
“When it comes to men, deal with us as we are, not how you’d like us to be”
.....he's not marrying you.
Every man you have ever dated who has said he doesn’t want to get married or doesn’t believe in marriage, or has “issues” with marriage, will … rest assured … someday be married. It just will never be with you.
....he's being selfish.
Don’t confuse being classy with being a doormat. Classy is walking away with your head held high, graciously, and with all dignity. Being a doormat is offering to drive him to the dentist for his root canal.
BEWARE THE "FRIEND CARD"
He will always be able to play the “friend” card on you. He only has to be responsible for the expectations of a friend, rather than the the far greater expectations of a boyfriend. He’s got the ultimate situation: a great friend with all the benefits of a girlfriend, whom he can see or not see whenever he wants to. He may be one of your closest friends, but I’m sorry to say … as a boyfriend, he’s just not that into you.
Beware of the word “friend”. It can often be used by men or the women that love them to excuse the most unfriendly behavior. Personally, when I’m picking friends, I like the ones who don’t make me cry myself to sleep.
So, he wants you back.....
Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You’re deeply missable. However, he’s still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.
When you have a moment of weakness, remember:
Deciding to get back together with someone is a complicated and difficult decision. Just remember that the person you are getting back together with is the same person who, not long before, looked you in your beautiful face, took full stock of you and all your qualities, and told you that he was no longer in need of your company.
YOU DESERVE TO HAVE SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU, ALL. THE. TIME.
SO….be patient, he’ll come.
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well you can tell this girls boyfriend cheated on her a few times, used her until she become a lil’ bit smart and how hates every guy for this one guy.
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ahh .. passing on the wisdom. Thank you!
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